probably one of the most important concepts I’ve discovered is the difference between the “fixed” mindset together with “growth” mindset.
It’s a bit like “nature vs nurture”:
individuals in a hard and fast mind-set think you either are or aren’t proficient at one thing, according to your inherent nature, because it’s simply who you really are.
individuals in a rise mindset think anybody can be good at anything, because your abilities are completely because of your actions.
This appears easy, but it’s interestingly deep. The fixed mind-set is considered the most common while the most harmful, so it’s worth understanding and considering how it’s impacting you.
In a set mindset, you think “She’s a normal born singer” or “I’m just no good at dance.”
In an improvement mindset, you believe “Anyone may be proficient at anything. Skill comes just from practice.”
The fixed mindset thinks trouble is devastating. If you were to think, “You’re either obviously great or won't ever be great,” then when you have got any difficulty, the mind thinks, “See? You’ll never be great at this. Surrender now.”
The development mind-set thinks difficulty is just important feedback in learning process.
Can you see how this delicate distinction in mindset can change everything?
In a hard and fast mindset, you intend to conceal your flaws so you’re not judged or labeled a deep failing.
In a rise mindset, your flaws are only a TO-DO list of things to enhance.
In a set mind-set, you stick with everything know to steadfastly keep up your self-confidence.
In a rise mindset, you keep up your self-confidence by always pressing in to the unfamiliar, to make sure you’re always learning.
In a fixed mind-set, you look inside you to ultimately find your true passion and purpose, as though this really is a hidden inherent thing.
In an improvement mind-set, you commit to mastering valuable abilities regardless of mood, once you understand passion and function result from doing great work, which arises from expertise and experience.
In a set mind-set, problems define you.
In a rise mindset, failures are short-term setbacks.
In a set mind-set, you think if you’re romantically suitable for somebody, you need to share each of each other’s views, and everything should simply come obviously.
In a growth mindset, you believe a lasting relationship comes from effort and working through inescapable differences.
In a hard and fast mindset, it’s all about the end result. If you fail, you believe all work had been squandered.
In a growth mindset, it’s about the method, and so the outcome scarcely matters.
And yes, the mind-set it self isn't fixed. You can improve your mind-set simply by thinking it through.
I’ve discussed this in my own “Meaning of Life” talk, and my “why you should Fail” talk, if you’re interested in checking those down, too.
But we have no credit of these insights. This is all from Carol Dweck’s book, “Mindset”, and Josh Waitzkin’s book, “The Art of Learning”, both which I highly recommend.© 2014 Derek Sivers.( « previous || next »)